CONVERSATION STARTERS


From Margaret Wheatley's Book, Turning to One Another

1. Do I feel a vocation to be fully human?
2. What is my faith in the future?
3. What do I believe about others?
4. What am I willing to notice in my world?
5. When have I experienced good listening?
6. Am I willing to reclaim time to think?
7. What is the relationship I want with the earth?
8. What is my unique contribution to the whole?
9. When have I experienced working for a common good?
10. When do I experience sacred?

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From Our Circles

From Germany

I think that "faith in future" and also "what holds mankind together" and "from where get people their values in life" are some of the most moving issues for people. For these issues, the intimacy of an F4D circle seems to be more adequate than a public discussion. There is a deep wish of most participants to go deeper into the questions of values and ethics. The attitudes towards this issue are, by the way, quite different in eastern and western cultures.

From South Africa

What is your current passion? Can you share your story of where you think this passion was ignited? How can this passion enable you and others in our Futures? What has it done for you and what do you think it can do for others? What gives you identity and meaning in world today? What does it mean to be a successful human being? How would you create a new language for positive thinking? If you spent work as FUN, what will you be doing and why? How will you define "soulful" work?

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From Our Circle Hosts
Compiled by Carole Schwinn

Guiding Questions/Reflective Learning for Circles
About Context - what's going on in the world (our own lives, our families, communities, society, global village) that makes the work of From the Four Directions so crucial at this time?

About Callings - what is called for in this context? What would be different in the world if we, as leaders, answered the call? What and where is my own call to leadership?

About Change/Transformation - What do we believe about how the world works? What are the conditions in which individuals and collectives shift their consciousness?

About Principles - What principles of leadership can we derive from our beliefs about transformation?

About Practices - What practices are available to us? Where are they being used now? How can we use them in our own personal and professional challenges?

About Reflections/Learnings - What are we learning that both shifts our thinking and informs our practice? Where can we share and apply those learnings?

More Starters:

What is leadership?
What is life affirming leadership?
How have I experienced leading in life-affirming ways?
How could we get more of it?
When is it difficult to lead in life-affirming ways?

What works to foster human creativity, commitment, and responsibilitiy?
What are our experiences with participation?
What have we learned about what motivates people?
What is our experience with bureaucracy, hierarchy?
What indigenous forms of leadership do we know about?
What important issues in our community are we hoping to influence?
What is our vision for how we want the issue to be when it is moved in another
direction?
How do we feel about how we impact and influence these issues now?
What is our collective understanding about things actually change?
What changes do we desire in our own lives and our ability to lead?
What is going on in the world (our own lives, our families, communities, society, global village) that makes the work of From the Four Directions so crucial at this time?
What is called for at this time?
What would be different in the world if we, as leaders, answered the call?
What and where is my own call to leadership?
What do we believe about how the world works?
What are the conditions in which individuals and collectives shift their consciousness?
What principles of leadership can we derive from our beliefs about transformation?
What practices are available to us? Where are they being used now? How can we use them in our own personal and professional challenges?
What are we learning that both shifts our thinking and informs our practice? Where can we share and apply those learnings?
What are our burning questions?

What have I learned about leadership in general?
What have I learned about my own leadership?
What new questions do I now have?
Will I do anything differently now?
What would I like to talk about next time?

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Seattle, Washington

Session #1 - Theme: Gathering Leaders from the Four Directions
Focusing questions: What in happening in our communities, organizations, or world that makes it important for us to come together at this time? What is your personal hope in joining this Four Directions Circle?

Session #2 - Theme: Life-affirming Leadership:
Focusing questions: What is life affirming leadership? Describe a time when you were a life affirming leader -- what did it look like/feel like? What was the effect on you/others?

Session #3 - Theme: Diversity (we are diverse and seek to connect across diversity)
Focusing questions: (While you listen to others listen for differences rather than similarities) Who do you speak for, represent, bring with you? What did you notice as you listened for difference?

Session #4 - Theme: Our Beliefs on Change
Focusing questions: What do you believe about how change happens in families, communities, organizations, or the world? What type of changes do you want to support/stand behind? OR the following - What changes do you desire in your own life or in your ability to lead?

Session #5 - Theme: Human Goodness
Focusing questions: Describe a time when you most deeply experienced your own human goodness? How as a leader do you invite or rely on human goodness?

Session #6 - Theme: Life Affirming Leadership in Us
Focusing questions: How or where are you called to leadership at this time? What are the roots of your leadership practice? How can I/we deepen our practice as life-affirming leaders?

Session #7 Closing Session:
Focusing questions: What has been the gift of our time together? What do you long for as we go forth from this circle?

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From Workplace Circles

From the Participants of Hazelwood House
Host Site of a From the Four Directions Practicum


1. What do you need to know from each other in order to fulfill your hopes for your work now, in this moment?
2. What does it feel like, what do we see and hear, when you are being the best kind of leader you can be?
3. Do we depend on Diversity?
4. What is happening in (country) to make it important for us to meet here tonight?
5. What is our shared intention?
6. What are the definitions of a leader? What does life-affirming mean to us?
7. What will come of this discussion? “So what?”
8. Is immediate good practice of little relevance compared with expanding the consciousness of leaders in society, and engaging in global dialogue?
9. As a leader, how much of my time should be devoted to understanding problems and finding practices that deal with them, as opposed to spreading good practice?
10. What is your understanding of Life-Affirming Leadership?
11. How do I participate in the world? Or how do I wish to participate in the world?”
12. What is going on in the world that makes this coming together important for us?
13. What gives us courage to lead?
14. What does it take to have the courage to lead and what difficulties arise when we lead?


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From Other Groups

Foundation for Global Community

1. What do you see as the most important issue(s) facing the United States?
2. What do you see as the most important issue(s) facing humanity?
3. Has your thinking changed because of the events of the past year?
4. What do you think is/are the root cause(s) of the important problem(s) you see?
5. What solutions do you see to address these problems?
6. What other questions should we be asking ourselves at this time?

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